Moving with 4 children (legal advice request)

Hi there!

Looking for some urgent advice if possible! I was offered a teaching position in Abu Dhabi last year with an excellent relocation package for myself, my husband and 4 children. We currently live in Scotland, UK.

However, my eldest daughter was born to a previous relationship and I was unmarried to her father. I panicked as I couldn't find anything to clearly explain the legal implications of “illegitimate” children, and withdrew from the post. I was told by the school's HR department that all I would need is the letter of no objection from my daughter's father.

Now, here I am one year later with a few excellent opportunities on offer within Abu Dhabi and Dubai, if I take the leap. My family and I were hugely disappointed that our plans didn't go ahead last year. At that point, I felt I didn't have enough information, but now strongly considering making plans to live our family dream.  Would I be in trouble with the UAE law if I relocated and they realised on arrival that my daughter was born out of wedlock? Any advice would be hugely appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

J