Simplify

the website according to me seem like it need an architect to sync everything together, as in try make it simpler...not as if i dont know how to use the web but this site has lost me.
For one, when i try to log out, i cant, im just redirected to the forum and am still logged in.
Secondly, adding a contact directly is  taking me back to my profile and there again i have to type in the name of the person, instead id just do what face book does, a confirmation box and when am done ill still be at the page i was at. and i think your system is confusing the default pictures for male and female.
Id like to offer my help later or for any further information i am an IT student also willing to learn, but overall i think the site is pretty nice.
Hasta luego.