Hi, all..I'm Wendy from Malaysia. I'm 26 years old, non-Muslim, studying PhD in a university in Malaysia.
My soulmate(boyfriend) is a Palestinian born and raised in Saudi Arabia, 23 years old, Muslim, studying degree in the same university with me. We love each other and we plan to have our future together, I will convert to Islam and he will stay with me wherever we go in the future.
Both our families know about us. My family used to be rejecting us, but now they seem ok with our relationship though never seen him in person yet. His family sometimes talks nicely to me on phone, as if friends.
We are both in a serious problem now.
This month he went home (Saudi) for sem break and two days ago, his dad forced him to agree to engage with his cousin whom he has not seen after they both grew up. His dad gave him only two options:
1) engage with her and his dad will send him back to Malaysia to complete his studies
2) reject the engagement and he will stuck in Saudi forever
If he chooses 1, we will get to see each other again, but perhaps not as couples anymore....
If he chooses 2, we will not be able to see each other for a long time, until we have money to fly to each other, and he might have to stop his studies here in Malaysia....
I don't understand why is his dad so mean to us? Is it because I'm not a Muslim yet? Or I'm older than him? Or I'm not a Saudian?
WHAT SHOULD WE DO?????