Hello everyone,
Im Zepyhron from germany and I wanna tell you my tragic story.
I was this march traveling for 16 days to HCMC. I was met there my vietnamese girlfriend for first time in real life. We know each other from a german-vietnamese friend, he is my collague at work. He often invites me to come to his place and were do eating, chatting and laughting. Also at Tet Festival. He introduce her to me in October last year and we do a lot videochat and normal chat. She is the younger sister from his wife.
I stayed the time at her place in HCMC. She lives alone (with 5 yr old son but he was at her moms place) and do very good caring about me. We also do 1 week holiday in Nha Trang. I had a wounderful holiday in Vietnam and met of course also her family. We had a big dinner with the whole family. We do trust each other very much.
I really do love her and I had there the best time of my life.
I know their goal from the family was to get her here to live with me in germany.
Back in germany my friend ask about marriage her. First I said yes, but then, 1 day later, I had some doubts.
I said him that I need time to think about it.
A day later he came with his wife to me, very angry and aggressive. He insulted me very hard, I was also crying then.
I also couldnt talk with him at work, he is ignore me. My girlfirend dont want have concact to me anymore.
The situation is very hard for me, I want try to apoligize and get back a normal relationship with them.
This is first time for me loosing face to someone.
How should I do react now in this situation ?
Sorry for my bad english.