Zanchun, its not about working to get rich, often its just about surviving. But for your information I always did travel for women I loved, for relationships I wanted to explore. Maybe 10 times Ive done that. My point was that very often women treat the trip like its nothing, like its so easy, and if the guy wont go fast it means he is a liar or insincere and im saying its not true.
This trip im making next month, its not for anyone, just for myself, and yet it took a long time to plan and figure out. Would you say i was insincere to myself, for my own trip, just because I couldnt do it fast?
About 5 years ago I chatted a Viet woman for a few days and she asked me to come to Saigon the next day, after all I was just next door in Malaysia. I said its impossible, today is Thursday and you want to me come tomorrow Friday? I cant do that! And right away she thought I was a liar and insincere. Cmon.
YES, if people are chatting for a long time and pretend to be making plans but never do them, yes i would agree something is wrong. But using myself as an example, things are just as easy as they seem and it doesnt mean insincerity, thats all.