I have visited the DR for over 30 years--mostly Cabarete area to kitesurf. I love the country and area. I have never looked for love here as i did not want a long distance relationship and the cultural/economic differences are too great. I am gay and single and one night a few years ago I met a younger Dominican gay guy in Cabarete and we hung out for a period of time. Despite my explaining right off the bat I was not looking for a relationship he persisted in pursuing one each time I returned to visit. I think he finally gets the idea that we will not be together in the future.
That doesn't stop him for asking for money and I have helped with small amounts here and there. But now I realize he hasn't really worked for years and yet depends on me sending money for rent and occasionally food. He says the economy is really bad due to Covid and there are no jobs.
How do you guys manage to help out here and there when you see a need with out becoming the 'go to" person all the time and making it easy for people to not work.
Recently his cousin in Miami found someone for him to marry and he wants $8000 to start that process. I do not support fraudulent marriages and have said no but that does not stop the pleas.
Honestly as I think about places to settle in the future--the economic differences and the seeming desperation of some Dominicans to leave the island takes the DR down a notch on my list.