Hi there,
I moved to Japan in January with my family. My brother-in-law lives with my mother-in-law here in Japan (he's a leech), and he's been physically attacking her to the point of injury (the worst instance was a broken leg). She is in her 70s, but she doesn't want to leave her home for him to keep to himself (he owns several properties, and wants to keep hers), and she's afraid of the shame if she reports him to the police.
I know this is definitely not the best place to ask, but as a British expat, with not much ability in Japanese, I thought I'd at least start here.
I have been on the verge of doing something brazen, (I hate domestic violence/bullying, and I'm not afraid to stick up for vulnerable people, especailly family) but I want to try and keep things to the book, and not ruin my chances at getting my residency next year. I want to know what would happen if she was to report it to the police? Would he be arrested? A restraining order? How long would she likely have before he could return?
Our options right now are;
- Just leave him there to get away with it, and take my mother-in-law to live with us.
- Report him, move her out whilst he's absent and either sell, or barricade the house.
- Do something I probably shouldn't, and scare him off.
In any case, we would have to move, because he knows where we live.
Anyone have any useful information, or any way to find information about this? Most of the google results are on domestic violence against spouses, and are outdated for English speakers.