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I am seeking some advice on how as an Australian expat not living in VN I gain custody of my child who is currently with his Vietnamese mother. I'll bullet point the valid details but over view is I thought everything was ok but a surprise visit to the house and she isn't even raising him and hadn't been home for nearly a week. He is not being taken care of and she has all sorts of bad influences hanging around as evidence on facebook I have found shows. She is very clearly only wanting to keep custody for the money from me which I would not care about one bit is he was receiving care but some hired maid is his primary care giver to the extent that he reaches for the maid when he cries even when in her arms.
Some details:
* We were dating for 4 years
* I am since been told she has been married to a Vietnamese man for many years. (don't care moved on)
* I have had the DNA test and he is 100% my child (not that it was needed by looks) have both English and VN versions done
* I have done the hard work and got my name on his birth certificate.
* I have been paying plenty of child support and any other assistance needed.
* His well being and care is very poor, he is constantly sick.
* When confronted she was unconcerned and said no problem can take him but the next day back flipped and said I'll never see him again (someone else writing the messages for her and putting whatever in her head )
* he is 18 months old
* She has left him for the last 5 days while she ran around partying and has not been home (good old facebook)
I'll do whatever it takes to get my son out of that situation.
Has anyone had experience in this area? or can you point me to some literature on my rights or pathway forward here. Is there a law firm that specialises in this kind of thing?
Any help is appreciated