Hello to all,
I am new and this forum, but I got to say that I really enjoyed in the past week reading some of your stories.
I am writing to you all today because I need some advice on what to do now.
I'll give you as brief as I can my story.
I live in Montreal Canada, and I am 35 years old.
I met my fiancée 2 years and a half ago online. We grew closer and closer, and I went and visited her 2 times last year for a total of 37 days. The second time in august I ask her to marry me. She said yes.
Afterwards, we decided the next best step was for her to come live here, although we are open to the idea of me going to Brazil. We will see in time, but we thought for now the best step was to live together here where I live in Canada.
Situation in Canada isn't that great with rent cost and getting the citizenship is hard from what I saw over the past months but nonetheless, I tried to gather some information.
We decided to try to get her a visitor visa last November. We got the answer yesterday and it was a no... it really is bumming us out because she does have a rent there and up to this week, she had a job. Ok she didn't have that big of an income, but enough to live in her apartment and a little save aside. She booked a one-week trip and even rented an Airbnb. Maybe the fact it was one week was a little too fishy for them…
So yes, she just left her job this week for personal reasons and must look for a new one so asking for another visa might take a little while. From what I gathered It is almost impossible for her to get a visa after we get married, so we are thinking about waiting next winter to get married, over here if her visa is accepted or there if it is not once again…
Meanwhile I am going to go visit her for 45 days from April until early June.
What is the best way at this point to look at this. It will be hard to leave her in June knowing I will only once again see her 6-7 months later…
Worse part is that in Quebec the delay for sponsorship is now 3-4 years while the other provinces are at 1 year waiting. So, I am even considering moving out of Quebec next year.
What's the best and fastest way we can stop the yo-yo game and established each other somewhere?...
Also, it was a friend of a friend that helped us with the visa, and he suggested
that if she can get it to make an extension and eventually, she could get a work visa.
I am a little lost about that aspect vs the sponsorship. Can they be done simultaneously or is it one or the other? What would be the best option.
My job contract ends in a month so I will be open to move wherever I want to or find another job this summer here.
I hope it clarifies as best possible my situation. I really need some insight right now. It would be truly and deeply appreciated.
Take care everyone and have a beautiful day!
Thomas