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#81  2011-12-07 12:48:27

Asfia
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Asfia
From: Mahooz
Registered: 2010-11-15
Posts: 6

Re: relationships

If you deeply love the person and he/she still occupies your mind,heart and soul and returns to you after regrets of leaving you then you would consider.




 
 
 

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#82  2011-12-07 14:37:55

thktrang
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From: Ho Chi Minh City
Registered: 2011-11-13
Posts: 11

Re: relationships

depend on how you feel and how you want to be in your life...




 

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#83  2011-12-07 14:45:26

vijay.singh
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From: Salwa-Kuwait
Registered: 2011-11-23
Posts: 47

Re: relationships

Well it depends on person to person maybe

"FORGIVE AND FORGET "

"DONT FORGIVE AND NEVER FORGET"




 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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#84  2011-12-08 14:30:49

suave
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From: Addis Ababa
Registered: 2009-03-22
Posts: 97

Re: relationships

It is vital to tame emotions.




 
 
 

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#85  2012-02-20 17:33:40

borntobemild
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From: khobar
Registered: 2010-08-09
Posts: 414

Re: relationships

if a person chooses to go for someone else once given the chance, then it means that his/her selection criteria for someone's life partner are not the same and that would be hypocritical. in other words, you would be lying to yourself if you chose someone else the second time around. its most likely youll end up with the same "personality" and still have the same problems.




 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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#86  2012-03-03 17:03:06

fivalco
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From: Cairo
Registered: 2010-12-07
Posts: 18

Re: relationships

No




 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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#87  2012-03-04 13:12:54

simranbenedict
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From: Alkhobar
Registered: 2012-03-04
Posts: 10

Re: relationships

well may b ....but you usaly move on n will find some one better if u cared more n ....if u dont get by tryin to hard then u think of going bk but its better to be with that one person who respects you n love you n will do any measures for you ...n it dint matter if its now or then ....




 
 
 

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#88  2012-03-05 11:57:31

beppi
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beppi
From: World Citizen
Registered: 2010-08-08
Posts: 705

Re: relationships

I would avoid the mistakes I made by
- marrying her much earlier.
- doing many things differently after that.




 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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#89  2012-03-08 21:43:47

Mohanad37
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Registered: 2011-12-14
Posts: 23

Re: relationships

for me, I haven't came to this answer yet as i'm still single but i will be pleased to get married soon




 

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#90  2012-04-02 01:48:50

kherington
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Re: relationships

if i could returnin the past i will definitely not marry the same guy,after the ways he maltreated me.I  will even try to erase him from my past so that i will give way for a different person to enter my life

#91  2012-05-30 06:38:11

admars
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Re: relationships

Yes i will if i know we are happy together and that he is the good one for me why not

#92  2012-06-05 14:09:28

Hericles
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Hericles
From: Windhoek
Registered: 2012-04-14
Posts: 1088

Re: relationships

Hi folks
we cannot go on live in the past leave it behind! Life goes on.




 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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#93  2012-06-05 14:40:43

mas fred
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mas fred
From: Jakarta
Registered: 2009-08-02
Posts: 2319

Re: relationships

yassmin wrote:

if you return to the past will you marry the same woman or will you marry the same guy?

I'd definitely marry the same woman but I've never married a man so I can't really comment about that.




 
 
 

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#94  2012-06-09 04:39:00

biscuta
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biscuta
From: Cheonan
Registered: 2009-07-14
Posts: 49

Re: relationships

If I can go back in time I would change a lot of things but I'll never change falling in love with my husband and marrying him. If I go back in time I'll choose loving him over and over again.




 
 
 

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#95  2012-06-20 03:48:08

evelyn j
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evelyn j
From: Abidjan
Registered: 2011-10-19
Posts: 5

Re: relationships

I think i would like to marry someone more older and more matured in mind.




 
 
 
 
 

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#96  2012-06-21 22:54:01

missmorocco22
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From: Casablanca
Registered: 2012-06-20
Posts: 20

Re: relationships

it depends if it will have the same situation or not




 
 
 
 

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#97  2012-06-22 09:49:24

wirefence
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From: Hengshui
Registered: 2012-06-15
Posts: 9

Re: relationships

Sure,yes,first choice is the best one.




 
 
 
 

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#98  2012-06-22 22:58:56

haggishunter
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From: Edinburgh
Registered: 2012-05-02
Posts: 524

Re: relationships

Id marry my husband every day if i could one
i waited 15 years to find him and i was not looking for him top

I would not get rid of my mistakes as you learn from them.




 
 
 
 

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#99  2012-07-31 11:00:48

JasfurJQ
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JasfurJQ
From: Jeddah
Registered: 2012-06-19
Posts: 1591

Re: relationships

if i had regrets of not marrying HER today, deffinitly i'll come back to the past and marry HIM.hmm




 

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#100  2012-07-31 14:41:49

kiwiinkorea
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kiwiinkorea
From: Bangkok
Registered: 2011-05-24
Posts: 370

Re: relationships

Definately not, returning to a situation where the damage is already done is a recipe for doom. Tried it once and it was even harder to separate than the first time. Like adding salt to old wounds.




 
 
 

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#101  2012-08-18 19:38:29

maradona812010
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From: bombay/singapore
Registered: 2012-05-09
Posts: 261

Re: relationships

what about single men ?




 
 
 
 
 
 

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#102  2012-08-19 05:40:24

Nellin Jessvellin
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Nellin Jessvellin
From: Tanjungpinang
Registered: 2012-05-24
Posts: 55

Re: relationships

Never,,past always past .. just take the past memory become experience to the future..




 

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#103  2012-08-19 13:36:43

Hericles
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From: Windhoek
Registered: 2012-04-14
Posts: 1088

Re: relationships

We cannot return to the past, time doesn't go back




 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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#104  2012-08-19 14:18:06

HaileyinHongKong
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HaileyinHongKong
From: Hong Kong
Registered: 2010-12-28
Posts: 1736

Re: relationships

Maybe I'm just old fashioned, but I think if I were married there would have to be some very serious problems for us to divorce.  I'd do absolutely everything I could to make the marriage work, so if we got divorced then I'd have to assume that it was irreparable.




 
 
 

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#105  2012-09-19 08:09:22

nadia tan
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From: dubai
Registered: 2012-08-21
Posts: 22

Re: relationships

maybe yes, cos i got both positive and negative in my marriage but then i will always result in seeking divorce....  but yesterday is past, no need to look back, we always have choices in life, so just be careful and wise next time

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