I understand your frustration but it would be a waste of money to bring her to Europe or somewhere else and marry her there as you have already spent a lot on the process.
You would still need paperwork for both of you to do this anyway.
It cost me around $20,000.00 and 12 months of time to get married to my Lao wife.
The fact that you are Romanian and do not have too many Embassies anywhere to assist makes the process longer too, even for the lawyers processing your application.