stumpy wrote:shams190512 wrote:I am a Filipina working in here in Saudi Arabia as a nurse.. I met this Egyptian guy who is the pharmacist in our clinic 2 years ago and we fell in love. although our relationship is secret and we only chat and message each other via online or skype. but he was engaged then but he said that he didn't love that woman because it is only a family relation and his mother wants that woman for him.
Apparently when he had his vacation last year he married this woman and became pregnant.i was very very sad at that time coz i never expected that he will marry the girl that his mother wants to. I had my vacation also last year when I knew that... he was in Egypt and I am in the Philippines for my vacation. then when I came back here I thought that everything was ended... I never had any news from him if he will be back here or stayed in Egypt for good...I totally overcome the situation and accepted it even its really hard for me.. but not seeing him in my workplace helps me a lot.
But early September last year he came back here. I didn't mind him at all I don't care if his here already but all I knew then that I hope I couldn't see him again. I erased him in my social network.. all the chat that we are connected from before. but then after a week of his arrival I received a notification that he want to befriended me again.. not knowingly what to do but still in my heart I want to talk to him so I accepted it. we talked and he explains everything to me what happen in Egypt and he said he couldn't do anything more because his mom is sick and he doesn't want him to be upset thats why he did that... we talked everything and I cried a lot coz I really really do love him.. and in the end we decided to continue our relationship not sure what will happen in the future.. I accepted him even he is already married coz that's how I love him. and until now we still continue this relationship and he promised to marry me in Egypt when we had our vacation, but I don't know how he will do that. I accept being the second wife coz I really feel that he doesn't have any feelings for his wife right now all his time are with me and we enjoyed every moment we spend together.
He told me his plan that he want to marry me in Egypt but knowing my workplace I cannot go out to process my papers here if ever. and what documents shall I need in order for it to be processed. his also here in Saudi Arabia so what he can do about it so I can tell him coz he doesn't have any idea how it will work with us. or it will be valid coz he will get married a second time around? please I need your response right away coz i been praying to Allah that if He really wants us to be together he will works ways it order for it to happen. Inshallah! ya RABB! Ameen
Hi and welcome to the forum
You should not trust this guy as he has not won your trust the first time around so why would you want to trust him a second time. He has preyed on your vulnerability and your loving nature. He has used you. If he has done it once to you and is now considering doing it to his wife then why trust him ?? Forget him, move on and get on with your life.
Life is a learning curve so learn from this and get on with your life.
I really agree with you stumpy, what he is doing Is already cheating. Do you think he will not lie the sane way he lued to his wife when he's trying to catch you? Of course he is lying by doing that.
A man who can lie from his wife , obviously can lie to anybody and use them 'till the time and situation permits them to do so. Until then, they will be caught lying, and they will have another explanation for sure.
Just be careful, this kind of people are pathological liers!!!
