Top 5 tips to live in France

Hi,

When you are going to live abroad, you may have a lot of questions. Hence to facilitate you in this process, we are inviting expats to share their top 5 tips with regards to settling and living in France.

What recommendations would you give soon-to-be expats in France?

How should they prepare efficiently for their expatriation project and settling in?

Please share with us your best advice for a successful expatriation in France!

Thank you in advance :)

For an easy life appear like a humble peasant for the first 6 months.

Engage in as much speaking french as you can, when you struggle shrug maybe let out an exclamation in french. Like ou la la.

Smile don't be scared to hug or kiss on the cheek or pat on the back, random strangers.

Party or at least eat a meal with anyone before you do business

Try to purvey to the french you are here to have fun.

Courtesy and don't read into anything too much, if you take offence at something it becomes your problem not there's and they are very forgiving.

Remember Liberty, equality, fraternity.

Yeah ok so more that 5, I guess it's your round next.

Learn the language or at least learn the basics.  I know, I know, this is what everyone says, but it really is true, you are coming to live in France, the only way to be truly happy is to be able to live amongst your neighbours not in an exclusive English bubble.  And to live with the French you need to be able to communicate, it doesn't have to be perfect, that will come with time, but you do need to make an effort.  The rest will follow.  It is such a fabulous place to live it's worth it, trust me  :)

1.  Language: As others have said, learning the language is going to be number one.  You don't have to be fluent.  Especially in the countryside, they will appreciate all attempts that you make even if it is just Please, Thank You and Sorry.

2.  Bonjour: this won't apply so much in big cities, but elsewhere say Bonjour to anyone you pass in the street, when you go into a shop, when you go into a waiting room.... pretty much everywhere.  This is an old courteous custom that used to be widespread in other countries but unfortunately no longer so.  However, in France it is basic manners, usually followed with Monsieur, Madame or their plurals.

3.  Expect to be ribbed:  this applies to anyone moving to any different country - people who don't know you and want to find a common point of conversation will sometimes use stereotypes, including their own - e.g. joking about what you eat, joking about what you think of what they eat, etc, etc.  Take it good naturedly - it's only trying to find a way to connect with you, it's not trying to make a statement about your country or compatriots.

4.  Do your research before arriving: the health system, utility suppliers, banks, savings systems, tax, etc, all operate differently to your home country, including if that's within the EU.  There are plenty of online resources that can help, many in English, so prepare yourself and arrange or print out what you can before arriving (especially if your internet won't be up for a few weeks after arrival), and it will seem less of a challenge.   

5.  This rather follows on from point 4 - you may be frustrated or not like that things operate differently to how you are used to, but don't be that person who complains to them about how it works better in your country - even if it does.  Although usually it's not better or worse, just different.