Hi,
I'm new here, I would like some advice. I have met my girlfriend last year in december and almost everything doing fine since. In fact we talk together over 20 to 30 hours per week since february and I met her this summer for 3 weeks and I trust her. We are now engaged and talk seriously about marrige in the coming january. I've told to my girlfriend this summer one of my friend told me some month ago he will come to my marriage in VN and one of my uncle told me probably he will come too,
Now, the problem i'm facing is my friend thinks he can't have off work time to come in january and seem to be not so interested to come. He would be the only one to come and even if i pay his trip, his work will probably block him here. My uncle will not come he told me. My parents tell me they can't come because it's to far away. They never go away any more than 60km from house and rarely! So going to Vietnam for them is a big no-no even if they would like to come to my marriage. So no one from my family or my friend will come to my marriage in january at least. Personally, I don't care. The most important for me is to be with my love but my girlfriend told me if i go alone to marry her to not come because she will not marry me. She want me to have at least one relative to come with me. I know it's reasonnable and I want too but ?? I can't force anyone of my relative to come, it's a long trip. I'm not sure to find someone, I just don't know what to do or think. She told me his family can't accept our marriage if I don't have anyone with me.
I'm not sure what should I do now. I will talk with her to try to find a solution but what do you think of my situation ?
Thanks you.