I've met and fallen for a beautiful Kenyan lady that I met online. We chat all the time on whatsapp and I've spoken to her on the phone. I'm a Christian and I believe she's God fearing too. I'm planning on meeting her in Kenya soon.
The only concern I have is that she has hinted that she needs money to pay for the Internet to keep chatting to me as its very expensive in Kenya. She doesn't have a proper job but she says he helps her friend at her shop and sometimes gets an allowance. She knows I've been hurt and used for money in the past and so isn't demanding, constantly asking for money etc. when I tell her my concerns she says that I mustn't judge her because of what happened to me in the past, which is true of course. She also said I can just send her with what I'm comfortable with.
Maybe she's just being clever to win my trust? Like I said I've been used in the past and don't trust my own judgement with girls anymore.
What do you guys think? I'd especially appreciate advice from Kenyan ladies and white guys dating Kenyan.