Well, i don't expect such small things can bother me that much. I have a room for rent in my apt, a Japanese American just moved in after a French girl had finished her 8 months in Vietnam. I normally finish my work very late, abt 7 or 8pm and somedays when i arrived home, i found my flat being a mess, full of dirty dishes, pots and pans on the counter and dining table. And sometimes lights and fan and air-conditioner were on in the kitchen and living room while she was in her room.
The first time, i reminded her abt saving power as i pay for all bills. The second time, i talked with her about keeping the kitchen clean because our maid just comes twice a week and i can't cook in a mess. But she doesn't seem to change. Today i was home, tired but had to tidy up my kitchen. I definitely couldn't smile to her and i found her acting similarly to me. She even showed her difficult face to my sister when she dropped by my flat to give me some food. I was a bit confused and disappointed. What should i do now? talk to her again or suggest her another place?