#81 2010-09-04 10:50:02
- FeeAcer
- ViP

- From: Ras al Khaimah
- Registered: 2009-08-06
- Posts: 5830
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hi Romance73, Your private box should work by now. Try it out and tell us if it works!
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#82 2010-09-04 11:25:11
- Julien
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- From: Grand Baie
- Registered: 2005-03-11
- Posts: 27896
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
just a precision, your mailbox was automatically unlocked by our anti spam algorithm, and not because your asked for it.
We don't unlock the accounts on demand
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#83 2010-09-05 02:40:59
- Romance73
- New member

- From: kuwait
- Registered: 2010-09-01
- Posts: 5
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
THANK you FeeAcer And Julien its work now and i am Very sorry to bother you 
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#84 2010-09-06 00:43:54
- guillermina
- Member

- From: Auckland
- Registered: 2010-06-16
- Posts: 19
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
HI julien,
yes I believe it, is so hard to control the spam...and you know more than me about it..
you are doing a good job,
keep in touch
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#85 2010-09-06 01:44:43
- Argentina82
- Member
- From: Capital Federal
- Registered: 2010-09-05
- Posts: 18
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Im not a spammer!
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#86 2010-09-06 17:24:23
- LiaMoon
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- Registered: 2010-09-03
- Posts: 4
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Thank you for your help!
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#87 2010-09-09 03:34:25
- century.jubbie
- New member

- From: Metro Manila - Makati City
- Registered: 2010-09-02
- Posts: 4
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
(moderated: off topic and no ads please)
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#88 2010-09-10 06:54:47
- betterlife
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- From: Dubai
- Registered: 2010-09-09
- Posts: 2
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
I agree with your anti spam rules, how about unlock it in the following day, that will be better. Thank you
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#89 2010-09-12 15:13:45
- Claire G.
- New member
- From: Lyon
- Registered: 2010-09-10
- Posts: 4
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
I'm anex user and my profile doesn't work, can you help me?
Thank you!
Claire
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#90 2010-09-12 17:54:19
- FeeAcer
- ViP

- From: Ras al Khaimah
- Registered: 2009-08-06
- Posts: 5830
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hi Claire, welcome to expat blog 
Which problem do you have with your profile? I seem to be able to see it!
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#91 2010-09-12 20:00:11
- Claire G.
- New member
- From: Lyon
- Registered: 2010-09-10
- Posts: 4
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
the message I have is :
Your message hasn't been sent. In order to prevent spam issues, the private message system is not fully activated for new users. Have you presented yourself on the forum ? Please exchange a few messages with us on the forum, and we will fully activate the private message system. Thank you !
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#92 2010-09-12 20:08:59
- FeeAcer
- ViP

- From: Ras al Khaimah
- Registered: 2009-08-06
- Posts: 5830
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hi Claire,
Well that's exactly what you should do then! Have you read Julien's explanation on top of this topic; it explains the anti-spam system.
Just participate actively in the forums, for example Lyon's forum and your private mail will be fully activated.
This is only a measure to protect the active members.
Thanks for your comprehension.
Arlette
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#93 2010-09-12 20:24:51
- Claire G.
- New member
- From: Lyon
- Registered: 2010-09-10
- Posts: 4
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
ok Arlette!
Thanks for your answer!
Claire
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#94 2010-09-13 23:41:59
- Friendly bahrain
- New member
- Registered: 2010-09-13
- Posts: 7
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
you make sense
inorder to stop misuse of this site its necessary to do all this!!
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#95 2010-09-14 08:41:19
- century.jubbie
- New member

- From: Metro Manila - Makati City
- Registered: 2010-09-02
- Posts: 4
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
julieneeeee!
YEs i aM GUILTy of that act- sending same mesages to my contacts - however i am not a spammer- please unblock my account. Thanks a lot... and more power.
Jubbie
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#96 2010-09-14 09:07:26
- Claire G.
- New member
- From: Lyon
- Registered: 2010-09-10
- Posts: 4
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hello all,
I'm not a spammer too, please let me write to my new contacts!
Thank you!
Claire
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#97 2010-09-14 09:11:37
- Julien
- Founder

- From: Grand Baie
- Registered: 2005-03-11
- Posts: 27896
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
I remind you the rules
Stop asking us to unlock your PM system
You can unblock your private message system by yourself. How can you do that ?
Please take the time to present yourself on the forum, to participate to a few discussions (with real answers), and your private message system will be unlocked. That's it !
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#98 2010-09-14 23:37:12
- ezzix
- Active member

- From: Hamburg
- Registered: 2010-08-19
- Posts: 48
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hello Julien,
It is good to have an anti spam program, but i got 2 messages and i tried to answer them, but i cant cuz of this system..
As i c, many arent that happy with it cuz spamming definition is toooo sever.
why dont u try to allow the users to decide what is spam or not, by providing a button that they can press and block a spammer!
ps: i participated in different forums, but still cant send pvt msgs.
thx for your help
ezzo
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#99 2010-09-15 06:18:46
- mel_khabarovsk
- Member

- From: Khabarovsk, Russia
- Registered: 2010-01-21
- Posts: 15
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Thank you, thank you for the update!
Please don't block me! I'm real..
Regards,
Melody
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#100 2010-09-21 16:19:56
- celestebobiles
- New member

- From: Bahrain
- Registered: 2010-09-19
- Posts: 6
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Dear Julien,
based from the comments that i read, ur spam avoiders is very in efficient, please try to modify the systems, and i think most of the users here are professionals, so we dnt have the time be a "spam-ers", as one of the comments here, we want us to be contacted, so we can contact them by this blog.
please try to modify or make adjustments on your system.
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#101 2010-09-21 22:30:17
- yardiebarbie
- Active member

- From: Bangkok
- Registered: 2010-06-14
- Posts: 48
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hi all,
I have read every single post on this topic and have gathered from all that has been asked and answered that you have to participate in the forums in order to freely send private messages.
I wasn't aware of this rule until someone replied to me just recently in a forum saying they're not able to send private messages as a new user. I was surprised, this never happened to me. I guess I'm not a fan of private messages (on forum sites like these), just not the place for it I think.
It's not a matter of whether you copy and paste messages so much, as there are persons who say they haven't done that. This rule is just to ensure that people come on expat-blog for the right reasons - to share with others in the same expat situation their feelings and experiences, to keep the forums alive. Having lots of private messages won't help anybody who comes on here seeking answers and not able to find anyone willing to respond. In the process it will remove the spammers.
Let's keep the site going...
Samantha
Claire G. wrote:
the message I have is :
Your message hasn't been sent. In order to prevent spam issues, the private message system is not fully activated for new users. Have you presented yourself on the forum ? Please exchange a few messages with us on the forum, and we will fully activate the private message system. Thank you !
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#102 2010-09-21 22:33:49
- yardiebarbie
- Active member

- From: Bangkok
- Registered: 2010-06-14
- Posts: 48
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Wait a minute...I just realized I'm no longer a 'new member' but now a 'member'...interesting! :-)
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#103 2010-09-23 15:53:03
#104 2010-09-23 16:01:07
- RISSAHOLLA
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- From: KL
- Registered: 2010-09-22
- Posts: 8
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Ok copied and pasted a message introducing myself to like minded people so will I be able to send private messages or not? It was easier to copy and paste being on an iPhone Noe I can't respond to messages that were replied from
My initial sent items
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#105 2010-09-23 16:03:02
- RISSAHOLLA
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- From: KL
- Registered: 2010-09-22
- Posts: 8
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Very annoying this site is so restricting that in the end you can't be bothered to be sending forum messages just to send private messages
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#106 2010-09-23 16:04:26
#107 2010-09-23 17:58:12
- nobin
- New member

- From: Bangalore
- Registered: 2010-08-11
- Posts: 2
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
agree to rissaholla 
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#108 2010-09-24 19:54:14
- mjoun
- New member

- From: Manama
- Registered: 2010-08-05
- Posts: 6
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hi Julien,
Ok no problem, I do appreciate your feedback. I am an expatriate new to Bahrain and trying to meet new friends. I was not aware of the rules. Basically, I was sending the same message asking permission to be part of the contact list.
Now, that I know the rules, I will definitely respect and move forward accordingly. Pls let me know how to proceed. I like to be able to send and receive messages as expect it. I do appreciate this website and all your team efforts in making the life of expatriate little easier. Looking forward to hearing from you.
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#109 2010-09-25 04:48:04
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hi Julien !
I'm happy I found this expat connection!!!
I'm Andressa, a tourism student and I'm doing a project for University about expatriates and executive expatriates who live in São Paulo , I'm looking for people to help me in my research answering some questions and telling me about their experiences in Brasil ...
so I sent some messages and posted a topic to find these people, 4 answered me !!! But I'm blocket because of the anti-spam rule, this is causing a delay with my contacts , I can't answer them , the system doesn't accept my messages... they are considered as spam... this is too bad for my project ... Could you help me please?
Thank you
#110 2010-09-25 05:29:13
- FeeAcer
- ViP

- From: Ras al Khaimah
- Registered: 2009-08-06
- Posts: 5830
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hi Andressa,
Julien is off on weekends so I'm responding to you
Maybe the messages you sent out were copy/paste messages?
Did you read the initial message of Julien and his subsequent responses to similar questions in this discussion?
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#111 2010-09-25 11:39:50
- Solli
- New member
- From: Moscow
- Registered: 2010-07-27
- Posts: 2
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hi, I am not quite new, and i had some messages on forum, but today i get this spam error. Hope this message is enough to unblock my mails 
(When i was new, I was sending 2 similar messages, and all gone successfully
- it's a note for not proper working system)
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#112 2010-09-25 14:58:09
- FeeAcer
- ViP

- From: Ras al Khaimah
- Registered: 2009-08-06
- Posts: 5830
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hello Solli and welcome to expat blog 
Maybe I can advise you to go to Moscow's forum to present yourself there to fellow forum members and maybe participate actively in some discussions.
It would surely help to unblock your private box (did you read the initial message in this topic where the Administrator explains it all).
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#113 2010-09-25 22:15:00
- mjoun
- New member

- From: Manama
- Registered: 2010-08-05
- Posts: 6
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hi,
How long would it take to unblock your account? 
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#114 2010-09-26 05:06:51
#115 2010-09-26 07:55:13
- FeeAcer
- ViP

- From: Ras al Khaimah
- Registered: 2009-08-06
- Posts: 5830
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Hello Mjoun, all depends on the way you participate in the forum ! Maybe it's already unblocked?
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#116 2010-09-27 08:37:01
- swarnim
- New member
- From: Jyvaskyla
- Registered: 2010-05-11
- Posts: 3
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
i have got messages from a few ppl and am not able to reply to them..this seems wierd..i hope it could be sorted:)
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#117 2010-09-28 08:26:03
- Aequitas81
- New member

- From: Al Ain
- Registered: 2010-09-25
- Posts: 5
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
cool... now my PM is blocked ... im thinking to reply to my friends through the forum..
Mr. Julien,
You can put a virtual box under the PM dialog (numbers or characters) in order to prevent the spam.
such as yahoo and gmail virtual box.
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#118 2010-09-28 08:38:18
- Aequitas81
- New member

- From: Al Ain
- Registered: 2010-09-25
- Posts: 5
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
its really Disturbing to face such a problem while you introducing yourself.
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#119 2010-09-28 09:02:53
- Julien
- Founder

- From: Grand Baie
- Registered: 2005-03-11
- Posts: 27896
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
Aequitas81 wrote:
You can put a virtual box under the PM dialog (numbers or characters) in order to prevent the spam.
that wouldn't work
most of the spam is manual spam (people who take the time to create accounts and send the same message to everybody)
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#120 2010-09-28 14:24:26
- tigs
- New member
- From: The Hague
- Registered: 2010-07-20
- Posts: 5
Re: Anti spam system & new rules
ugh! how annoying that I can't reply to a private message because I haven't been active on the forum.. and now, after a few forum messages, I still can't reply to the private message. I understand the reason for it but I don't want the other person to think i'm being rude by not responding....
edited to add: phew! was finally able to reply to the PM - yay! 
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