Moving back to Australia after living in London

Welcome on Expat.com nicthetraveller,

I am indeed very sorry to read about your mum illness.

I think it won't be that difficult for you to readjust to your homeland, since you have already lived there before! What do you think?

However, concerning employment I think it can be difficult at the beginning. Honestly, I admire your courage for your prompt decision and I seize this opportunity to wish you all the best in your home land.

Regards

Nic,

Best advice is to approach it the same way you did going to London. You'll have your honeymoon period, and you'll have a time when you regret it. People won't be that interested in your 'London phase' either, which can be disheartening.

Are you moving to a city, or the country?

Cate

Hello nicthetraveller,

I have recently returned back home to Australia, after spending 2.5 years in England. Just like you, I made the decision to return due to my mum/grandparents health.

I will honestly tell you that I am struggling! I am already thinking when to go back next. I especially miss London! Do you have any tips or advice?

TheTraveller

I've been back for nine months now. It's getting easier as the time goes on. My best advice is keep yourself busy. It's like when a relationship ends. lol. Concentrate on making new friends to get out and about with and catching up with old friends. Get a job that you're happy in, a stable income (finances can be stressy) and plan more travel. Set some goals (maybe save for a house/car) and organise things to look forward to! Since I've been back, I've been on a trip to China and Hong Kong. I have Thailand, Cambodia and Vietnam coming up in February, a weekend in Melbourne in March and hopefully a South Pacific Cruise for a week in May and it doesn't stop there. I'm not talking five star, these are all budget trips! I've joined meetup.com to meet new friends (many of mine have other priorities - house, kids etc)with common interests. I go on day trips, concerts/bands, dinner/drinks. It's unfortunate that we have family members who are unwell. You did an amazing, selfless thing by moving back. I like to live with our regrets - I love London and could have lived there forever... But I would have never forgiven myself for not spending time with my Mum while she was well enough, or spending time with the rest of my family for that matter while they are still here. Hang in there. It does get easier! :-)

Hello!
Thank you so much for your advice! I've now signed up for meetup.com, and I've booked tickets to Sydney to see Swedish House Mafia, and am trying to make new friends! Funnily enough, I miss the rain, so I am planning to visit Hobart in July!

London will always be there, who knows how long our loved ones will be here for! One day we might end up moving back.

I hope that your Mum is doing well!
Thanks Again!