Visa to noumea

Hi all,
My name Phuong from Vietnam and my husband is french, we get married in 18th, december, 2008 and i am waiting visa for me to new caledonia. Now, my husband is living in noumea, i applied my visa 3 days ago and French ambassy said i had to wait from 3 - 6 months. Before my husband come Nomea, we know about the long time for my visa, i told him to not worry anything about me, the time for visa is ok with me, 3 months, 6 months or 1year is the same with me because i wanted him leave vietnam, i couldnt be selfish to keep him in vietnam while he was sick everyday when he was here because of weather, food, living conditions... Actually, when i live far from my husband, its really dificulty for me. I miss him alot and i get sick in my head because of missing, and i know my husband is too. If somebody in this forum can help me how way to get visa fast, pls tell me, and if somebody who is vietnamese living in noumea, can i become ur friend
Thank you and best wishes to all
Phuong Muller