My main questions would be what the safest smaller city, or outskirts of larger city, is for a single mom and small child. Both safe from crime and natural disasters (I think I'd be too nervous to live right next to an active volcano).
I'd also like to be close to a school where they have both English and Spanish. And, I wondered whether there were any after school activities like sports or other ways to meet friends.
And, I don't know if this is possible, but my son has allergies so we usually get all of our meats now from local "organic" farms who do not use GM feeds. I've heard many blogs say that all the food there is organic, but then I've heard others who say that they feed their chickens, in particular, GM corn from the US and I've even heard that they still use DDT there for a pesticide. This would be an important issue for us. We could live without chicken, but not eggs or beef (though we don't eat much beef)
My income is about $1300 a month, but once my son is 18, it will only be about $950 per month, so that's a consideration too. Perhaps I could start some kind of small business to supplement that, but I don't want to count on that.
I'd appreciate any advice you could give me.
p.s. Has anyone successfully moved their cats there? I hear that can be a problem.