Need urgent advice on Spouse visa case for sweden

I am married to swedish national almost a year ago. I applied my spouse visa online on 4,april,2014.its been almost 8 months now, i have'nt heard anything yet.i did contact swedish embassy online but they told me to wait for 11 months nd now updated to 14 months. Please advice me what should i do?Or shall i wait for embassy  for any response.any replies appreciated.

I think you have to patient now the waiting time for online applying has increased to 16 months

Oh its sad To hear you. I dont think it takes so much Time.you should ask in politely manner for an appointment in swedish Embassy New Delhi. They Will definetly help you.I think you gone through an interview. Also clearly explains then the terrible situation.
Do not worry
Good luck!
Peggie