I am living now for about 1 year in Cambodia and it is getting more and more serious with my girlfriend. But my girlfriend is spending more and more money. how do I discuss this the best. I have a good job and make good money. But what is the best way to let her know there is a limit. I am abroad half the time. I trust her and she is no bar girl.
I have already discussed this with her and want to let her free in what she spends and to learn her boundaries. But the boundaries are getting bigger and wider. This month I will set the boundaries. but how are you guys doing this.
I don't want to put her on a sort of allowance or sweet hart money.
But if that is the only way that so be it. I will pay the rent and she will get some money to spend.
She used to have her own business, but this was destroyed some time ago and will start in about 10 months. But self sufficient is something ells.