Advice for moving to NL from SA

I am a 39 year old south african woman engaged to a Dutch national.  Can anyone in a similar position give advice to what is needed in order to move there permanently and marry. What would we need to do etc Also I have a child (not his) what is needed so that he can live with me there permanently.

Welcome on board.

My first advice would be to read the sticky topic on the main forum " New to Holland".
There you will find all the information you need and several links to get even more information.

Happy searching!

Thank you so much ! I have read as much as I can and have found the site excellent but I was hoping to find a fellow South African who had a similar experience to share with me and give some advice on the route they had to take etc.