In summary, expats become old tigers -more experienced and wiser after having lived here for some years. But there is one thing I cant understand and want to ask. From reading your old posts, I understand many experienced experts who are active in this forum got maried with ideal Viet women who dont care about your pockets and stay with you in worst days. If so, why do you keep on sharing about bad experiences instead of telling the OP how you could find your wonderful partners? It will be more interesting than complaining.