Marriage rules in Jeddah

There's nothing such - that forbids her, for marrying who ever she likes...not just because you have a daugther...because, she's basically "single" (not married) and ready to mingle...
Also, since you're the guy, i don't think you can use any such case as "child support" for your daughter...

...but at one point, she might need her employer's authorization to do so...(i would assume that her status as an employee is *single*), and she might not get it if what she told you that her contract prohibits her from doing so (or might be just one of the lies she told you...lol )  - but still, there are just so many ways to get married without such consent ...in the end, i honestly feel that you just lost her... :'(

That suck's bro, if that ought to happen, just let her go scenario's like this are common here in saudi,in the end it's you who will just end tortured and broken into pieces, like Popolocroix said there is no such thing as a CONTRACT FORBIDDING you to get married, for a catholic woman being married to a muslim it doesn't actually matter(not unless it's the other way around i think). unless you guys are married i believe you can't do something about it, but assuming you address her as your GF, your hand is as tied as it is. Sorry bro.

Move on, forget her and make something of your life. Not worth getting bitter and twisted over. Just put it down to one of life's lessons and learn from it.

you need to let it go . MAN up for Allah sake

aw bro! that's really horrible dude.. first thing why did you let here go here in jeddah to work for you and your kid? hmm and not getting married in the first place, in our country right now you can get married via Law legalization. you should secure all those things first before letting her go here. Don't get mad if i say that bro. Did you not do a background check regarding the fact that her X boyfriend is here. Probably as of today they are doing what they like to do. Just move on bro. And like the others said, there's no such CONTRACT FORBIDDING you to get married. I mean what was that? that a common sense lie. and i think you still have communications with her based on your statement. i feel sorry for you.

but it only show's that you cannot trust her. 

if you really love your wife and need her for the sake of your child and if you are married with legal papers you can fight for her. wherever she is you can file a demand against her if she is really proven guilty. you can even send her back to Philippines by asking support to her agency of course with proof and ask guidance to your chosen attorney. adultery or fornication a case like this its normal in our country because those who cannot afford to get an attorney due to lack of financial more people think they had escape the scenario. now if you really love her let her go all sins has equal punishment if they cannot serve that punishment here on earth, worst will be given on judgement day. just saying.....

JasfurJQ wrote:

if you really love your wife and need her for the sake of your child and if you are married with legal papers you can fight for her. wherever she is you can file a demand against her if she is really proven guilty.

It helps to read first... he said it is/was his gf, not wife.