Meeting Algerian women?

Hi Jim,
Yes, we have things in common. I'm 24 year old guy, how old are you and how old is she? and when are you getting married? Did religon created any problem between you and her? Are Algerian people broad minded and easy going? Will you take her to Arizona or live with her in Algeria? I'm sure,you must have enjoyed a great time in Algeria with her.How much time, did you spent with her.I had asked the question about her parents acceptance about me,she said no problem, I have the guts for that.My Algerian women wants me to take her to US,Japan,Austria,Australia or to any other developed country, beside I myself want to marry into a mixed culture.I think life would become fantastic. She can speak Arab,French,English.I think, I will also learn alot from her.

Hi Jim, you seems like a nice man. Yes, you are very true about the problem with parents. Recently, her mother saw her talking on phone with me. She asked who is Umar? she told everything to her mother,her mother completely refused as I was not Arab! I hope to convience her parents and her family, when I go there.I hope to convience them up as being nice,good and best for her.Tell me, Is your religion and your fiance religion same? I think Algerian people make issue of this, if it's not compatible.Does your fiance really loves you? Will she be willing to do anything for you? Were you single through out all your life? I'm asking because she asked me, she asked about previous relation with any women.She asked about girl friend and personal things.She even had asked if I see porn or ever had seen porn before.I think she want to see 100% purity,dedication between the partners.Why men are aggressive in meeting women in Algeria? Do you mean the women's father,brother,cousin get angry or you mean anybody I found on the street,shops,resturants,etc.Tell me about the driving in Algeria. Did you use the International Driving license or you made a local license there in Annaba? Most importantly, how you get the VISA, did she sent you the invitation letter for VISA Approval? or you apply for Visiting VISA alone and did not mention about her at the Algerian Embassy.Should I tell the purpose of my visit at the Algerian embassy. I'm afraid any Algerian man at the embassy would reject me first before her parents does, as you earlier said they are not broad minded and get angry when we meet their women! I hope VISA doesn't bother me.

I think Algeria is a muslim country. Majority are muslims there. In Algeria women also wear short clothes, I don't understand as why? I haven't seen such tradition in middle east Muslim countries, women there wear complete clothes.I don't know about Dubai. It's very modern.I know about Kuwait,Qatar,Saudia and few others. You won't find nude women wearing undergarments or taking Sun Bath in middle east SEA Beaches openly.In Algeria, women can be found in such clothing. I don't understand if this has any relation with the religion or it's just a tradition of the countries. Over here in Pakistan. Women don't wear short clothes and are not found nude in SEA Beaches or at Public spots.You are true, our relation is not old.We are trying to get to know each more as days passes by.She has accepted for marriage, but she is worried about the problems that needs to be resolved, as where we would live together and how.She asks me, whether I would get a job their or not.Currently I'm doing a great job.The company is one of the TOP 5 in Karachi Stock Exchange.I also have a good designation in the company. I hope the project and it's experience and the job that is going on at the company would definitely give me an edge in finding job in another country.In future, I would be having my own work.I have no plans to continues doing job forever.She don't want to live in Paksitan or Algeria. She wants us to move to a modern country.I don't want myself to be a selfish person. I have my parents to care about also. So I have to come and go to Pakistan for quite some time.Neither me or she want to marry this year. Atleast we want to get engaged soon. After 1-2 years we will marry.

She's going to give me an invitation letter for the VISA anyhow, two months before my final arrival. She doesn't know what to say and how to say to her parents about me.I think I will approach her father directly and say everything.Though her father dislikes the concept of Internet.I asked her that I will sleep in her home and not in a hotel,she refused.I hope her family agrees to let me stay in their home with her for maximum time.I don't know if the flat is small or there's no room for me?.Her 1 sister,1 brother,father,mother lives in the home, her parents are both retired teachers.She lives with them in a flat.Can a algerian women/girl introduce her fiance/boyfriend easily to her parents, like English,Americans can.I mean how much obligations applies to Algerian women from the society.How much power they have in society, how much freedom does Algerian women have in Algier? I want to estimate, as for how much time, I can be with her.Can she be allowed to stay with me for few days far from her home, for example. if I planned to go on a tour of Algeria or something like this with her.Will her family allows this.Is this thing possible in Algerian families?

She is killing me now. She sometimes says No,sometimes YES. Now, she says. You are a good man, you will find your dream women.There are so many problem, now I think we quit the relationship now, it would be better than quiting the relationship in the Algeria, She says, I don't want to play with you, you are a faithful man,etc.She is confused now, because of problems.This thing had badly effected me and my life.It's unbearable pain. I need help from Bouchoune and Jim1122's finance in Algeria. Allah help me

Last edited by umery2k75 (2009-11-14 15:24:03)

Salam Nassi,
Thanks for giving me courage. These days, she don't talk, nor reply to email. I said, I will give you two years to think about this.She don't pick up phone,nor she reply,nor she reply to email.Her parents,her brother was always on her mind,her family acceptance,etc. Her family seems complicated to me. I had email her that, when I made my mind to do something. I always do it. I never step back. Actually I find her through Marraige Ad.She was very happy with me, but she always used to say about the family problems,etc and me being non-arab.She said, she don't know what is going to be the reaction of her family.I will come to Algier, but don't know if she wanted to meet me or not.I will come to Algeria and see her place,her city,her people,her culture.Algerian women looks great to me. There's so much attraction in them. They are really fine,graceful,innocent and hardworking.Well, I pray in every Namaz from Allah to do something for me. You know seriously, I don't want to find anyone else. I had made my mind, it too difficult for me to change. For one and a half week, I was badly disturb, I wasn't able to do anything usefull at atll.