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What does it mean?


#1  2012-05-16 14:58:19

hebbatollah
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From: Cairo
Registered: 2012-03-29
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What does it mean?

What does it mean when you "delete" someone's contacts: email, mobile number, home address, private phone, birthday, etc from your records- yet they are still "saved" in a secured area of your heart & mind.

How could someone, who disappeared countless seconds ago, still keep their tender gestures engraved in your heart?

What does it mean?




 

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#2  2012-05-16 16:32:04

Suzie Que
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Re: What does it mean?

smile for moi, it means i'm hurt and want to punish them by evicting them from my life. i'm smirking as i've done this and found the man indeed was still in my heart. silly stubborn ways...loving/wanting/needing/desiring can makes us crazy...i do believe this wink i'm definitely not a lukewarm woman...i read a great book "mating in captivity" by esther pearl and i agree with her premises...one side of our nature wants to bond but another appreciates our separateness...and separateness leads to erotic intimacy...so again, the dialogue and relations stay alive...my two cents hebba




 

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#3  2012-05-17 02:54:03

mas fred
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Re: What does it mean?

It means you probably made a mistake when you pressed the delete key.




 
 
 

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#4  2012-05-17 09:35:33

hebbatollah
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Re: What does it mean?

mas fred: actually i didnt press the delete button until very long time after he was gone. there was no point keeping them. they turned to be a torture weapon every time i saw the name.

Suzie, human heart does incredible things to one when it is broken, yet still hoping ;-)




 

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#5  2012-07-12 11:05:49

francaiscuisine
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From: Illinois
Registered: 2012-07-03
Posts: 40

Re: What does it mean?

it's like u want to do away with them, probably.




 

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#6  2012-07-12 11:18:07

Adim
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From: Nouakchott
Registered: 2012-07-07
Posts: 98

Re: What does it mean?

Having experienced that they stay in our heart whatever..i do not delete anymore.




 

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#7  2012-07-18 12:18:43

JasfurJQ
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Re: What does it mean?

hebatollah, it means you had a deep relationship and you have been with him long enough to know him well, deleteng his contact number, address or any detail about him is nothing compare to human memory. everything about him is in you, everything you know about him was engraved inside your heart and thats how people created this so called LOVE.




 

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#8  2012-07-18 12:26:35

maradona812010
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From: bombay/singapore
Registered: 2012-05-09
Posts: 260

Re: What does it mean?

how romantic:heart:




 
 
 
 
 
 

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#9  2012-07-19 07:02:15

biscuta
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From: Cheonan
Registered: 2009-07-14
Posts: 49

Re: What does it mean?

Deleting phones numbers and getting rid of the photos, doesn't help as long as your heart and mind are holding on the memories you had with him.

Breaking up is always hard, the best way to stop thinking about him is keeping yourself busy, with your family, with your work or study, go out with your friends and date again.

Your relationship with him is over but your life isn't, don't let sadness get to you and live in your heart, you are still young and life is full of good surprises.




 
 
 

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#10  2012-07-19 10:53:30

sara.s.s.s
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From: Ahmadi
Registered: 2012-07-18
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Re: What does it mean?

hebbatollah wrote:

What does it mean when you "delete" someone's contacts: email, mobile number, home address, private phone, birthday, etc from your records- yet they are still "saved" in a secured area of your heart & mind.

How could someone, who disappeared countless seconds ago, still keep their tender gestures engraved in your heart?

What does it mean?

Will darling it is mean that you are full of life.

So live your life as Princes don't lose your time thinking of some one or thing happened long tome ago and you can do nothing about  it.

Last edited by sara.s.s.s (2012-07-19 12:48:13)




 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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#11  2012-07-20 10:16:10

saimans
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Registered: 2012-02-06
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Re: What does it mean?

It means, Move On !! The show must go on.....smile




 
 
 

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