Brian Ward, 36, got his first taste of living in a Spanish-speaking country after high school graduation. Since then, his life has consisted of traveling around the world, surviving on canned tuna at some points, pretending to be pro-surfer Kelly Slaters second cousin and spying on his Russian Mafia neighbors. Ward decided to compile his journals of living in Mexico, Spain and other countries throughout Latin America and Europe, with travel tips on how to live rent-free for under $25 a day in his book titled Single Abroad: Confessions of a Boyish Man. His book, referred to as a modern day version of The Motorcycle Diaries except with more whining by Lulu.com, a self-publishing company, follows Wards adventures, both good and painful, from sharing pants in Costa Rica, to traveling the European rail system on canned tuna, to surviving Mexicos 60-year-old buses. If you cant already tell, I was a loser in high school, Ward wrote in his books introduction. The only reason I got through it was because most of my fellow students thought I was completely out of my mind. My senior quote for the high school yearbook was, Is the ringing in my head bothering you? While traveling, nobody knew who Ward used to be, and he said he used this opportunity to constantly reinvent himself, sometimes attempting to impress women by telling them he was pro-surfer Kelly Slaters second cousin. They dont know you dont have a job, you did bad in high school and your cars a piece of junk, Ward said. You can just invent your own identity. Ward first experienced the art of identity crafting while living in Costa Rica. He jokingly asked his grandmother for a ticket to Colombia for graduation, and unexpectedly, she bought him a ticket to Costa Rica, where some of her friends lived. He learned Spanish by while shopping for cigarettes for his host brother and spending the majority of his time listening to and learning about his familys obsession with Levis Jeans. I brought this pair of Levis Jeans to Costa Rica that didnt fit me, and gave them to the my host family. The whole family took turns wearing them. They were in constant circulation 24-hours a day, Ward said. He explained that when one family member would take them off at bedtime, another person would put them on. Theyre probably still wearing those things, he said. Ward said this experience opened his eyes to how people live outside of the U.S. They really value any little token of g
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