I've been told not to talk about it. So I'll tell you the story. It's only going to be censored anyway.
When I rejected some horny Arab guy, he called me a "dirty Jew whore". I said something like, "I'm not dirty. I bathe every day. Twice a day in the summer".
I thought that was a pretty good response, but since I never denied the Jewish part, my relationship with the moderators went straight down the toilet. None of my "friends" came to my defense and, in fact, several of them joined the Jewish-bashing bandwagon. More than a few took the anti-woman path. Since this site supposedly does not approve of racial discrimination or predation against women, I was a little surprised. I've since learned how naïve that was of me.
The lessons are: never underestimate the boys club, and be careful who you reject. Some will accept it and move on. Some will take vengeance. Once they turn it into a war between men and women, you know what's going to happen.
You will hear again and again that this is not a dating site, and new members are dealt with swiftly, but that doesn't necessarily make it a safe haven for women. Especially if you upset a man. It doesn't take much to reach the point where they can say absolutely anything they want about you, but all of your replies are censored.